© 2006 Lynda J. Robbins, Mediator and Counselor at Law  Web Site Design by Web Image Designs Mediation is a non-adversarial process for resolving disputes associated with: Separation Divorce Post-divorce modifications Non-traditional family issues Prenuptial agreements Postnuptial agreements Relationship agreements Estate and other family issues A mediator is a neutral, trained individual who helps parties: Create an agreement for their particular circumstances Understand the laws applicable to divorce and separation Negotiate fair and reasonable determination of parental responsibilities, financial obligations and division of property Mediation is not psychotherapy, marital counseling or legal representation. Mediators with backgrounds in law do not represent mediation clients during the mediation process, but rather serve as neutral facilitators of the decision-making process. Through mediation the parties: Determine their own solution Become empowered to present their concerns Learn about the legal and financial framework for their dispute Minimize the expense of court proceedings Reduce the emotional toll of conflict Preserve on-going relationships Emphasize the well-being of their children Traditionally, the parties meet with the mediator directly. They are also encouraged to work with attorneys throughout the process. Attorneys provide the parties with legal advice specific to their circumstances and assist the parties in maneuvering through the part of their process that requires them to go to court to finalize their agreement.